Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby

Is “You can never have too much sex!”  An accurate statement?  How much sex is too much sex and How much sex is too little.  It’s subjective, clearly and I don’t have a real answer, only rhetorical questions I’ll assume you will all answer.

Is sex a barometer of your relationship.  ie. If you have a lot of sex, your relationship is good and if you don’t have a lot of sex your relationship is bad.  My theory is that’s it’s really situational. 

Let’s say you have sex every day but your relationship is shit otherwise.  You and your partner don’t communicate well, you argue when you’re not having sex, you don’t have much in common other than the sex and you’re not connected in any way.  At times the sex is amazing; earth shattering, mind blowing, multi-orgasmic.  Other times it’s just okay, you both know every move and you’re working on an orgasm quick as possible.

On the other hand, let’s say you have an amazing relationship with your partner where you communicate in a real, sincere way.  You argue but over normal things, not just to bitch and moan.  You’re connected to your partner and you have tons in common.  You and your partner have sex, just not every day, or every week, or every month. When you do have sex though it’s always amazing.  You have not just one orgasm, not just three, you have at least a half dozen and you have sex multiple times for that stint.

Which scenario is best?

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2 thoughts on “Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby

  1. That’s a tough one. really.
    I mean. good sex is great – if it doesnt happen all the time then i think that’s fine.
    Sex often is also phenominal…but i think after a while it becomes repetitive and boring.

    i’d take the great amazing orgasms once a week/month…

    • Right? My good friend and I disagree here but I’m glad we see eye to eye. The way I see it, the old saying, “bad sex or any sex is better than no sex” (not even sure if that’s a saying but I’m saying it is) is bullshit. I’d rather have no bad sex all of the time and have really amazing sex every once in a while

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